Are you struggling to figure out what to do with your life?
Do you feel trapped at your current job since it provides the security of a paycheck? All the while wondering “Is this all there is?”
Or perhaps you’re going through a major life transition and feel confused about what path to take in life?
If you’re experiencing any of those situations, believe me, I know exactly how you’re feeling!
I know firsthand the frustration, the anxiety, the stress, from being stuck in those types of situations.
Because that’s how I lived for many years.
I spent years working jobs I hated because I was too scared to make a change.
And because I couldn’t figure out what I wanted to do with my life.
Instead I made safe choices, choices that didn’t get me close achieving my dreams.
And so I wasted many years of my life.
Years that I can never, ever get back.
And now here you are.
Feeling stuck, uncertain, confused about how to figure out what to do with your life.
And so I’m going to share something with you, a question that I think can help you.
This is a question that I use with a lot of my clients.
Try it and see if it helps you figure out what you want to do with your life.
How To Figure Out What To Do With Your Life
Here is the question that I want you to think about.
What would I do with my life if I only had 5 to 10 years left to live?
This is NOT an easy question to answer.
It is NOT a question to take lightly.
And you do NOT want to rush your answer to this question.
This is a question that you want to spend time with – journaling about your answer, or meditating on it, or simply contemplating it.
Whatever works best for you.
Embrace the idea that you have somewhere between 5 to 10 years left to live.
And then spend as much time as you need to with the question, even if it takes you a month or longer to answer it.
At the same time, remember that you’re not going for a perfect answer.
You’re going for an answer that will get you moving forward towards a future that’s better than your present.
The value of this question is that it forces you to focus on what truly matters most to you.
Five to 10 years is enough time that you can do something of value with your life but not so much time that you can afford to waste it.
It gives you enough time to do one, maybe two important things with your life.
But no more.
Think about what you could do with 5 to 10 years.
- You could write that novel that you’ve been putting off for the past decade.
- You could finally go back to school and get that degree that you always wanted.
- You could start that non-profit and create a positive legacy with your life.
(These are just examples, of course. What you would chose to do if you only had 5 to 10 years left is uniquely yours.)
And in order to complete those one or two important things, you don’t have time to waste on things that don’t matter to you. Or to wait to get started.
Not with only 5 to 10 years left to live.
Once you have an answer that works for YOU, start taking action on it TODAY.
Because no matter how much time you think you have left, none of us really knows.
Maybe you really do only have 5 to 10 years left to live…